I have no idea what the title means I just it sounded funny. I was reading a blog (CardioGirl)
And she posed a question of trust - and I thought my answer would be too big to fit on comments (and far too serious).
Trust comes from inside, some people seem to be born with it and others are naive (like myself) and learn the hard way. And others seem never to trust anyone.
Over The Years - I have learned to trust my intuition, my vibes not just in keeping me from harm but also to find the best way for me. How did I do it ? I stopped listening to others and started to listen to me (that internal voice that says YESSS or NO WAY JOSE).
Is it easy to do ? Yes, but the you have to put away your cynical thoughts that tell you it is hard or that no one can do it. TRUST YOURSELF.
Say I go to a party and there is a lot of new people I have never met. Someone comes up to me and says "Hi" .
The first impression of that person is almost always my intuition. (They look nice but something feels not right.) or (He is nothing special but I like him for some reason). I know it is my intuition if the feelings I get don't make sense ( they don't follow the laws of logic). Astonishingly, my vibes are almost always dead on correct.
I do not define trustworthiness in terms of whether or not I keep promises. Trustworthiness for me is whether or not I trust you to be a good friend. Do I talk behind someone's back ? Gossip ? Do I make jokes at the expense of others ? Do I belittle someone ? If I do, I can hardly be a good friend, someone to trust.
I think I am getting better in this area (but the #1 error people make is believing they are better than they really are). I guess I'll just have to trust myself (my intuition) on that.
The bigger trust, the really BIG trust question that I am currently dealing with is TRUSTING GOD. I think it shows how silly I am. Of all the people you can trust, God should be number one, right ? So I think that I need to follow my vibes on this subject and trust in the power of Love.
If I love myself, I will be patient with myself - I will not expect myself to know it all, do it all, or even be it all. Somethings will get done, sometihngs will not. I trust that God loves me unconditionally and that means a lot. I trust that God wants me to find my own way and that is what I am doing. I have made mistakes but I trust that I have learned from them. Yes, I guess I do trust myself and in doing so I can trust others. So yes, I do consider myself trustworthy in deep matters but don't count on me to show up on time. That you can take to the bank.
I trust you will have a good day,